Hearts Broken Will Be Healed————————————— Many have heard me say it before and it is only a quote from Tony Robbins. "Pain is inevitable but suffering is a choice." In life things will happen, some within our control and others that are not but they cause us pain. Now much like a physical cut emotion hurting, pain, will heal over time and if tended to properly will be a healthy recovery too. Also like a cut emotional hurting can be agitated and infected if you will if you keep poking at it and agitating it. But we have to stop making matters worse.Unfortunately, in most cases, we are the one causing our pain to become suffering. Whether it is re-digging the wound like picking the scab of your soul, gross!It is our choice! ————————————— Why though? Why do we keep making the matter worse?Are we gluttons for this turmoil?In my opinion it is complex answer. I think it somewhere between pride and shame and we want our pain to carry a greater significance and others to know the damage they have done, if there was actual damage done. But, these things only make it worse. I understand the desire to be vindicated and wanting my hurt to mean much more and serve a greater purpose, I do.We need to stop making ourselves out to be martyrs.We are victimizing ourselves.